Confused

I am feeling very confused right now...even like I'm wandering.  We have gotten off kilter somewhere and I am struggling to find the event that coincided with it.  So where do we go from here...I sure don't know.  I do know that it seems we are on different wave lengths.  Maybe that is because our realities are different...we have our own eyes so we see things our own way.  I just don't know how to get things back on track...I can tell you when they derailed but I can't tell you how to restart.